Speak louder and be confident with that head of hair. I know it sounds scary but hair grows faster than you think and in 2-3 months it will have grown out to an inch or so. isn't someone whose opinion you should super care about. I have a dedicated electric head shaver, and I’ve tried doing it with no water, warm water, warm water+shaving gel, and using an after shave. Should I shave my head? I started shaving my head like a month ago and the skin on the back of my head has been a nightmare ever since. Ah, yes, the permanent conflicting gay urges of "i want to shave my head" and "i want to grow my hair out really long." I really haven’t been taking care of my hair, I have a giant mat that’s really hurting and pulling on my scalp, i’ve been trying to fix it days now with little success. Seemingly the … What you might think is just a simple grade one all over, probably isn’t, or at least it shouldn’t be. Just shave your head right now and see how it suits you. Anyone who goes "oh you're not REALLY butch, you have longer hair!" You absolutely don't need to shave your head to be butch- if you like your long hair, then keep it. My mom wants me to keep my hair, because of course she does. The real pain in the ass with having a shaved head is exactly that, the hair grows out in an instant making your head look like a nectarine or a kiwi instead of a glistening testicle. “Ideally it shouldn’t be the same length,” Mills says. Nah just wear it that shit looks beautiful man just wear it with pride.